Acceptance & adapting…

I gave a quick update on Monday’s blog post that I don’t have pulmonary fibrosis. I was relieved and happy when Dr. Stewart told me the good news. 

My pulmonologist at Dartmouth Hitchcock was young, intelligent, and easy to talk to and understand. 

He sketched out drawings to explain what I do have, interstitial lung disease. It’s not a quickly progressing disease, and there are two medications when it does progress. 

I received the best answer I could have gotten that day. It sucks that I have lung disease, but it’s something that won’t kill me in 3-5 years.

On Wednesday, I had some breathing problems which I knew would affect me at dance class. 

I had to come up with a plan and how I could adapt how I could dance. Breathing doesn’t affect how I teach, which I love.

I spoke with Kathleen about how we can adapt to my new condition. We came up with a variety of things we can do. 

Next, we discussed how we can adapt our classes for our students. Kathleen made my dancing adaptation easy.

Kathleen danced to the fast songs during my tribal workout. Emily is away and usually does the fast songs for me.

Our level one class constantly evolves with who we have in class and the students’ levels. Wednesday night’s class was clumsy, and I wasn’t happy with how it went.

I wasn’t teaching my students’ technique; I only was watching them dance, making a few suggestions. (This had nothing to do with my breathing issues.)

I let everyone know how I felt about what we tried. I thought out loud, and with the students’ help, we devised a new plan that should work.

During the next class with our core group of dancers, I told them about my condition and what it meant. 

These women and I have all bared our souls to one another. I tried to be positive when I spoke to them and shared what Kathleen and I came up with. (Kathleen had to leave early that night.)

I also shared on a deeper level why it’s been hard for me to teach so many different levels of students at once. Again, we came up with more ideas to give all the students what they need since everyone progresses at different times.

I was good with everything during class but began crying while driving home. I was sobbing in my truck before I got home. 

I thought I accepted having lung disease because I came up with ways to adapt. It turns out it isn’t that easy. 

I came into the house still weepy. When Marty asked me how class went, I started crying again—ugly crying. I told him I was having trouble processing everything and how hard it was. This was life-changing shit going on. 

We talked about it briefly, then decided to eat our dinner at 9 pm. I had a glass of wine while I ate and calmed down. 

This week has felt long and tiring. I’ve been busy doing things with little time to sit down and feel sorry for myself. I am not sure what I’ve been doing since today I realized our house was a fucking disaster; well, for me, anyway, I am a neat freak.

Many people have much worse things going on health-wise, but I feel like this was another sucker punch on top of dealing with other severe health and mental shit.

It’s Friday afternoon, and I am still in processing mode. Marty can brush things off and move on with life; I can not. He was “in one ear and out the other” poster child when dealing with things growing up and still now.

Why did dancing make me realize I have not accepted my current situation? Dancing was the thing that saved me from taking my own life and my boys’ lives 20 years ago, so now losing a big chunk of it makes me sad. I am grieving.

I can’t just fucking move on and adapt as quickly as people think I should. I still have to accept this significant change in my life which will never get better than it is today.

It took me a long to accept getting older, but this isn’t about age; it’s about the inability to do things you love.

I don’t really have a happy ending for this blog post, except at least it wasn’t fibrosis which would have been life-ending. I haven’t felt like writing this week, but today I needed to.

It’s not a “Happy Friday” kind of Friday for me this week, but I’ll “get over it” and snap out of it with time. Thanks for listening and sharing with me your comments which mean a lot, and are super supportive. 💜

Sunday funday…

Yesterday morning was gorgeous. Crisp, cool, blue skies and bright sunshine. The weather was perfect, even though I love summertime.

We had coffee and tea on our front porch and enjoyed the warm sunshine we were bathed in. It was a healing kind of gentle sunshine, without the heat and humidity that had kept me indoors since I had breathing issues in those conditions.

We were able to cook our breakfast outside. Yay! I prepped all the items we needed, and Marty was going to do the cooking. I set the outdoor table with pretty purple springtime cloth napkins with hydrangeas.

Marty is a good short-order cook and has done it for real. Breakfast was ready in a snap since the flat-top griddle was piping hot.

The menu…Fluffy gf pancakes with strawberry whipped cream, bacon, over-easy eggs, bacon, and hashbrowns finished with green onions.

It was a beautiful, relaxing setting with soft jazz playing in the background. I called Martin from across the street and asked him to join us, and he did! I quickly set another place setting before he walked over.

No Nelly! Off! Hot!

It felt like we were dining in a cute spot with good food and a great atmosphere. Our breakfast was delicious; the hashbrowns were my favorite part of the meal, like any other good Irishman.

After breakfast, I went in to get ready for Barbie, and it was cool enough to blow out my hair and straighten it! This is still a big deal since I am still a Jersey girl through and through. My scalp and hair have been damp all summer; having dry hair was delightful.

I wore pink, of course; I don’t always wear only black anymore. When I came down before I left for the movie, Marty told me I looked good in pink; it did look surprisingly good on me.

I went to see Barbie with my friends David and Arthur from next door at the Deming House. The guys are from DC and purchased their Vermont home a few short years ago.

The good news is they are now living full-time in Vermont since they have retired (well, sort of for David.) We hit it off right away; we love having them as friends and neighbors.

Weirdly enough, after the guys purchased the Deming House, Arthur did a little genealogy and found out the Demings in his lineage were related to the Demings of Arlington, VT! How can that even be, except it was meant to be?

We had to wait 30 minutes for the movie to start since the projector had an issue. While we waited, we talked about what cartoons we watched and the toys we played with when we were little.

I know when I was a kid, I watched a shit ton of tv. David and Arthur did, too; I guess everyone did back then.

I remember running to get a quick bowl of sugar-laden cereal or a Poptart and sitting “too close to the tv,” which would ruin my eyes, especially after staring at the small screen for hours in an Indian leg position or on my back.

We all loved Scobby-doo the best, with a lot of runners-up. For toys, I told them how much I loved my Barbies and played with them until I was 12 or 13.

David and Arthur both played with GI Joes; I am pretty sure David said sometimes he got to play with a friend’s sister’s Barbies. He was pretty knowledgeable about the different Barbies and their names.

Before playing with Barbies, I played with baby dolls and took one of them everywhere. I took care of it until I got tired of the baby, and it landed face down on the car floor. Good thing my mothering skills improved when I had Noah.

I loved those small bottles with the disappearing milk or orange juice. Orange juice for babies? I never second-guessed it back then.

The Barbie movie was really good. It was better than I expected, with many entertaining and funny scenes. We all liked it.

It was a great way to spend my day with people I love having in my small circle of friends, which took my mind off my pulmonary appointment the following day.

Last night, Marty spotted a vast bird way up on a branch of a black locust tree before sunset. We weren’t sure what kind of bird it was, so Marty shared a photo with a group on Facebook called “Happening in Arlington.” Everyone agreed it was an osprey.

An osprey is a type of hawk that is also called a fish hawk since fish makes up this type of hawk’s primary diet. They are found near large bodies of water such as Lake Champlain, lake memphremagog, and the Connecticut River.

The more I thought about it, even though other people have seen other osprey in our area, I knew this was a direct message from my power animal Hawk. He shows up whenever I need him. Marty and I took this as a good sign that put me at ease a bit.

I just returned from my appointment at Dartmouth Hitchcock and am happy to tell you I do not have pulmonary fibrosis. Thank God! I do have interstitial lung disease, but with a game plan in place to monitor it and accepting I will have some breathing issues for the rest of my life, I am ok with it.

Garden…

San Marzano tomatoes!

*** I wrote three blog posts this week, two in my head and one on my laptop. I decided not to publish any of them. They were troubling posts to write and even more so for you to read.

I went outside with Nelly, and we visited our little terrace garden this morning before it got too hot out. It always makes me smile, and so does she. Klaus was sunning himself on the warm driveway. They are seldom on this side of our yard this summer and I know Klaus misses it.

Nelly is almost full size.

Our veggie garden did surprisingly well, considering this is the soil’s first year and not to mention all the rain we’ve had in July. The wettest July to date, I believe.

The plants started slowly because we had cold nights in May and even the beginning of June—cold nights, not cool ones.

Our tomatoes are doing pretty well, although I admit with six plants, I expected more tomatoes. Of eight pepper plants, only two have pepper on them. We have zero eggplant which is very disappointing.

The herbs I’ve been using regularly for all kinds of dishes. I use basil and French tarragon the most. It’s hard to keep up with how much basil we have (not a bad problem to have, believe me.) Soon, I’ll have to freeze some to use in the winter for a taste of summer.

I am beginning to find recipes to use more of the growing herbs, such as lemon verbena and pineapple sage, both of which I’ve used in chicken dishes. We have spicy and regular oregano that I’ve been putting in my red sauces which add lots of flavor.

The rosemary plant that my friend Marcia gave me when she moved back to France last spring looks like an outdoor bush. Somehow, I kept it alive over the winter. It was dry looking, lost many needles in some areas, and scraggly if I am being honest.

Now, it’s so hearty and full. I love the intoxicating smell of rosemary when I brush my fingers along one of the branches. I use rosemary in a lot of my cooking. I hope it transitions well when I bring it back indoors.

Originally we put the garden in because I wanted to focus on things that bring me joy, and our little garden does exactly that. I like spending time in the garden alone and in the morning. We have two chairs on the terrace that I love to sit in.

Our little terrace garden is a peaceful place for me to enjoy. I feel the same zen effect as I do when I cook. When I go out to snip some herbs for dinner in the evenings, I usually have a glass of wine with me.

I had a delivery to make this morning and had errands to run in Bennington; I took Nelly with me. She hasn’t been shopping for a while and did great. She loves seeing people and riding in the cart.

If the weather cooperates, we hope to cook breakfast on our flattop grill tomorrow morning. Pancakes with strawberry whipped cream, hashbrowns, bacon, and eggs.

Sunday breakfast is a luxury we love since we only grab something quick before production during the week. Hopefully, we can eat outside on the deck; it always feels like we are eating out somewhere to me whenever the umbrella is up. Lol.

I am going to the movies tomorrow in the early afternoon with my friend David and possibly his husband, Arthur. I’m glad I am not going alone like I initially thought. I don’t go to the movies often, but now that I may have friends to go with me, I will. Marty is not a movie guy.

I wasn’t sure if I wanted to see the Barbie movie because I saw one of my friends didn’t care for it. Then I saw too many to count reviews from other friends that loved it.

My dance sister Bethany loved it; if she did, I will too. We always joked we shared a brain that’s how well we knew each other.

I am going to do everything in my power tomorrow to keep my mind busy and try not to think about my pulmonary appointment on Monday morning at Dartmouth. I am trying to stay positive and will hopefully hear the results I am praying for.

Grilled chicken topped with mozzarella and bruschetta made with tomatoes, olive oil, balsamic, fresh basil, and peaches, topped with grated parmesan cheese.

I’m looking forward to tonight’s light summer meal of grilled bruschetta chicken with our favorite watermelon and feta cheese salad. Light and refreshing after a hot day at the market for Marty.

This post sounds like more of a journal entry, but it’s all I have in me today. Thanks for sticking around. Enjoy your Sunday. Goodnight! 😴

Nelly is growing up…

Nelly is now 8 1/2 months and is the cutest little sweetheart of a dog. Marty and I feel like the luckiest people since we have the perfect little puppy for us.

Don’t get me wrong, Nelly is still a mischievous little girl and gets herself into trouble often.

The things that she does is hysterical. She loves to carry things from the inside out and outside in. Everything is fair game to her so we had to fix that.

Our house and yard are now super puppy proofed, neat, and organized to keep her out of trouble.

Like all frenchies, they are bred to be companion dogs which go through separation anxiety when their owners are out of the house.

We chose a frenchie not only because they are cute, but I wanted a companion pup. We take her with us whenever we go out for longer than an hour.

When getting a frenchie you have to know and understand they cannot be left alone for more than 3 hours. They suffer from serious separation anxiety.

Nelly loves going places with us. She never makes a peep in the backseat she is harnessed into. She falls asleep as soon as the truck starts to drive.

She never makes a fuss even if we have to get in and out of the truck a lot. She loves people, riding in a shopping cart and she goes crazy over kids.

We weighted Nelly this week and she is 19 lbs. Her frame is still small compared to other female frenchies. She is almost full grown.

Her breeding color is lilac, fawn, and platinum which have blue eyes and a smaller stature. I have looked at other female frenchies in the above breeding color and they are so similar.

Nelly adores Klaus and vice versa. They love playing and roughhousing. It’s amazing how gentle Klaus is with her especially when playing tug of war with a toy. He lets her win sometimes.

These two love to lay next to each other, something he never did with Otto; they tolerated each other at best.

She has turned Klaus into a gentle giant who by the way has slimmed down to 81 lbs from her keeping him so active. He was in the 90s at some point.

Watching the sunrise with me.

Marty and I look forward to taking Nelly up to bed with us each night. She snuggles in with her head next to ours and sleeps under the covers up to her chin, just like a human.

We wake up every day in that same position after spending the night listening to her snore and smelling the notorious frenchie farts. Lol.

Nelly was the right dog for me at the right time. She is there for me if I am stressed, frustrated, or sad. She really is an emotional support dog when I need her to be.

I finally have my appointment with a pulmonary specialist at Dartmouth Hitchcock on Monday.

I will have a cat scan and a pulmonary function test before my appointment with Dr. Stewart. I am nervous about this appointment.

This summer I am realizing living with lung disease is no joke. The humidity and wildfire smoke have significantly affected me more than the average person. It’s scary actually.

Some days I feel like a champ and others, like today, I’m inside our air-conditioned home still heavy-chested from the humidity. it makes me tired.

We sold our solo stove fire pit since I can’t breathe in any kind of smoke anymore. Since we missed having “campfires” we got a gas one with the money from the old one.

I keep trying to give away my worries about this pulmonary appointment, but it’s been hard to do. I’ve had quite a few anxiety attacks out of nowhere so I know this is deeply embedded inside of me.

Either way the appointment goes, I know I’ll have to deal with it and keep learning to live my life accordingly. It’s weird I am hoping I “just” have lung disease and not anything worse.

Right now, while I am writing this post, I’m resting on the couch with Nelly and boy, is she is letting them rip. 😂

Have a good night guys. I tried out a new recipe earlier today, I’ll let you know what it is and how it came out.

My perfect summer lunch…

While we are working in the production kitchen, I spend a lot of time thinking about food. What’s new, right?

I had the ingredients to make the summer lunch of my dreams, which only tastes this good when fruits and vegetables are in season.

We both love caprese salad, which is fresh mozzarella, tomatoes, basil leaves, olive oil, and salt & pepper. We don’t have any red tomatoes yet, but I can’t wait to use our own!

I saw an updated version of this salad with a twist; ripe peaches! Holy shit, that sounded delicious. 

I made it on Sunday afternoon as a snack for Marty and me. I drizzled it with a balsamic reduction found in stores, even in ALDIs.

Today, I made that version of caprese salad again, putting on thinly toasted baguette slices that I rubbed with garlic. 

Next, I made prosciutto with melon, which was finished with salt and pepper. The combination of sweet and salty is a classic.

I rounded out our lunch with a protein, 6-minute eggs. They came out perfectly since I’ve been working on getting them right.

I topped the eggs with salt, pepper, and baby chives I cut from my garden. They taste like a soft-boiled egg, with the yokes not as runny.

Marty returned from running product to our distributor, Wilcox Ice Cream, and was excited about our lunch when he saw what I made.

It was perfect on a hot and humid day which was ruined by smoke in the air again, which made us eat indoors.

The lunch? It was sweet, salty, and creamy, with a touch of acid from the balsamic reduction drizzle. It was filling and delicious. We could eat this every day in all kinds of variations.

That’s it from here with a short and sweet post; I wonder what I will make tomorrow? 🤔

Intimidating…

“All my adult life, I’ve been told by many people that they used to think I was very intimidating before they got to know me. Ok, then. No one has explained what was so intimidating about me.”Well, I don’t know, you’re just intimidating.” 

It happened two or three times in the last year. It happens at least once a year, catching me off guard. I always tried to figure out what I did, looked like, or said to make me intimating.

A new person in our small group of friends shared this with me about their son months after meeting him. I asked how their son was doing. Instead of answering me, they told me their son thought I was “scary and intimidating” when he met me. I told them this shocked me, and they said, “Well, he was.”

What the fuck? To say I was mad and sad is an understatement. First off, why would someone in my friends’ group say that to me? Why? To hurt me? I didn’t understand.

Well, they got their wish because I was hurt. I thought back to when I met this person’s son. It was Thanksgiving evening; we went to a friend’s place after dinner for a nightcap.

When I was introduced to this person’s son, I was in a great mood, drinking wine, laughing, and telling stories with everyone in the room. I went home thinking what a fun night and what a lovely young man this person’s son was. 

After being in their company several times afterward, their son and I got along great since both of us loved to cook. I never mentioned his parent’s words about him, but I wanted to. I left it alone, but I had trouble letting it go.

While sipping my tea this morning, I opened my Facebook newsfeed and saw this post on my friend Liz’s page.

The first time I read it, I was like, wow! I reread it a few times and said out loud,” Well, I’ll be damned! That’s it!” 

“It’s not me; it’s them!” Well, for fucks sake, I wish I had known this years ago. I would have saved time thinking about what I said or did.

Since I was a young girl, I’ve always been a leader. I was picked as cheerleading captain every year except as an underclassman on the varsity cheering squad. After that, I was captain again through my senior year. 

A girl I cheered with since the third grade told me a few years ago when we ran into each other she asked our coach why she didn’t ever make captain. 

I was uncomfortable as hell when she started telling me this story. I apologized to her and said I didn’t know you were upset or wanted to be captain. I just always got chosen.

She and our coach’s families were friends; she couldn’t understand why Mrs. Rossi always picked me. As an adult, she asked why she was never chosen captain. Mrs. Rossi said, “She’s not better than you; she’s a natural-born leader.” She told me as an adult, she could see what Mrs. Rossi meant and now agrees with her.

I thought about what she said; I am still a leader at belly dance and a business owner with Marty. My creation started the business, which I am still proud of. I had the confidence to know we had a product winner and would not fail.

I am an honest and assertive person, as that post said. I am confident without being obnoxious. I am a fun person, which people can tell after they get to know me for five minutes.

I walk with a purpose with excellent posture. Whenever I am in a store, people always ask me questions or directions about the store. If I know the answer, I will tell them. I tell them I don’t work here if I don’t know. They always seem surprised. 

I asked one man why he thought I worked there; he replied, “Because you have a useful look about you.” I smiled and thanked him. That was a big compliment to me and made a lot of sense.

Reading this Facebook post this morning eliminated all those unanswered questions about why some people found me intimidating. It’s not about me, it’s about them, and you know what? I can now see in each person who said it to me why they felt that way.

I no longer have to feel apologetic; I can take it for what it is and who it comes from. I can move on, with them or without them.


All is well…

Just an update, after a few brilliant thunderstorms last night, nothing flooded and it has stopped raining. Yay!

During the storms, we sat on the front porch since we both love thunderstorms. Neither of the dogs are afraid of them like poor Otto was.

I was sipping a cocktail when our friend Martin walked over to join us. It was beautiful out with a sunset that was a gorgeous shade of orange pink.

From a distance we could hear thunder and see lightening in the dark sky. The air was cool and refreshing after a swelteringly hot day.

Right now, we are enjoying coffee and tea on the front porch in the sunshine for a bit before we start production, banking and deliveries. Klaus and Nelly are loving it as much as we are.

Thanks for your positive thought and prayers. I rarely ask for such a thing but felt I needed to yesterday.

I am writing this on my phone so I apologize for any grammar mistakes. Happy Friday and seize the day! ☀️

Please…

I haven’t had a panic attack for months but when Marty said he needed to make a delivery over Bromley Mountain to a restaurant called Johnny Seesaws over with early. I could feel my anxiety building.

Arlington got very lucky with the last devastating rainfall that destroyed towns 25 minutes away leaving them underwater.

During the storm a few days ago, everyone held their breaths hoping this was not going to be another “Irene,” a storm from a few years ago devastating our area.

I looked at the forecast for the next 24 hours and it’s looks very scary again since water in rivers and streams are already very high.

I just got over the panic attack and while writing this short post.

Please say a little prayer for Vermont today who has been in national news earlier this week regarding the devastation that occurred.

Thanks.

Waldorf Chicken Salad…

I was convinced to become the Arlington School District’s food service director back in 2005.

I say convinced because others thought I’d be good at it. I never had such a position before it even applied for the job. Boom, it happened in a flash.

I said yes because I saw the position as an opportunity to make a difference in our schools and town. I became excited and very nervous.

I wanted to change the school lunch program in a few different ways. I wanted to offer three choices of food to anyone getting lunch; whether they were categorized as free, reduced and full price.

I took away all ala carte items that only kids with money could purchase leaving the free and reduced kids to only have one choice and everyone knew they were poor. Not on my watch.

I also took away desserts every day and saved them for special occasions like it was back in the old days.

I watched too many kids before I took over get the lunch just for the dessert and dumped the rest of the tray.

I wanted to offer a hot lunch, a sandwich, wrap, or panini, and a salad. I made sure that there was something for all kinds of eaters; even the picky ones.

I also wanted to introduce the kids to new and unfamiliar foods to them. I gave them small try-me cups to taste what I was serving, even to the brown baggers who seemed to like that.

Long before farm-to-school lunch in the Northeast, I worked with a local farmer and purchased rejected fruits and vegetables which couldn’t be sold due to their looks.

We turned those ugly ducklings into delicious food and baked goods. Yes, it was more work, but most of my employees were high school students and loved working with me.

I taught the kids what seasonal eating was. When they begged for watermelon in January I told them it was citrus season and offered them many varieties which I could afford through a fresh fruit and veggie grant.

Lastly, I wanted the teachers and staff to order lunch from us. I held events that invited parents and grandparents to the elementary school to eat with their children.

Parents would tell me on Parents Night at a school how they loved hearing about what their child tried for lunch.

Many parents told me they had no idea themselves what a “Three cheese focaccia melt with pesto and tomatoes”’ was but their kid loved it! This made me very happy!

One of the most popular salads was the Waldorf Chicken Salad on greens and a breadstick. Not something you would expect from elementary, middle, and high school students. Teachers adored it too.

When the little ones would ask me what a Waldorf salad was I would explain it like this.

“A long time ago there was a very fancy hotel in New York City called the Waldorf Astoria.”

“Back in 1893, a man named Oscar came up with a new salad for their fancy schmancy restaurant.”

Their eyes got big when I told them theatrically, “The salad you are having tomorrow is the same one that was served to the fancy people eating in the fancy restaurant who were staying at the fancy hotel.”

One boy asked if it was the same salad and if it would be ok to eat, meaning it was from 1893. I told him the one I make is exactly the same but freshly made. He looked relieved.

Red grapes and celery in this version.

Next, I told the kids what was in the salad. The salad had chunks of apples and grapes, which I already know they loved.

I couldn’t add walnuts to the salad due to the no nuts policy. I omitted telling them about the celery, it only takes one little thing to make a child turn their nose up to something.

The salad also had chicken for the needed protein and a special dressing. They nodded their heads and said they would sign up for it the next day. Yay!

Green grapes and sugared walnuts in this version.

Whenever I make Waldorf salad with or without chicken, I think of how lucky I was to feed those kids new and exciting food.

Now those kids are adults and parents. Whenever I see them they tell me how they missed my cooking. ☺️

What an awesome thing to be able to open their eyes to trying new things they never wouldn’t have as an opportunity to.

I wonder if they are doing that with their own kids?

Waldorf Chicken Salad…

I was convinced to become the Arlington School District’s food service director back in 2005.

I say convinced because others thought I’d be good at it. I never had such a position before, I never even applied for the job. Boom, it happened in a flash.

I said yes because I saw the position as an opportunity to make a difference in our schools and town. I became excited and very nervous.

I wanted to change the school lunch program in a few different ways. I wanted to offer three choices of food to anyone getting lunch; whether they were categorized as free, reduced and full price.

I took away all ala carte items that only kids with money could purchase leaving the free and reduced kids to only have one choice and everyone knew they were poor. Not on my watch.

I also took away desserts every day and saved them for special occasions like it was back in the old days.

I watched too many kids before I took over get the lunch just for the dessert and dumped the rest of the tray.

I wanted to offer a hot lunch, a sandwich, wrap, or panini, and a salad. I made sure that there was something for all kinds of eaters; even the picky ones.

I also wanted to introduce the kids to new and unfamiliar foods to them. I gave them small try-me cups to taste what I was serving, even to the brown baggers who seemed to like that.

Long before farm-to-school lunch in the Northeast, I worked with a local farmer and purchased rejected fruits and vegetables which couldn’t be sold due to their looks.

We turned those ugly ducklings into delicious food and baked goods. Yes, it was more work, but most of my employees were high school students and loved working with me.

I taught the kids what seasonal eating was. When they begged for watermelon in January I told them it was citrus season and offered them many varieties which I could afford through a fresh fruit and veggie grant.

Lastly, I wanted the teachers and staff to order lunch from us. I held events that invited parents and grandparents to the elementary school to eat with their children.

Parents would tell me on Parents Night at a school how they loved hearing about what their child tried for lunch.

Many parents told me they had no idea themselves what a “Three cheese focaccia melt with pesto and tomatoes”’ was but their kid loved it! This made me very happy!

One of the most popular salads was the Waldorf Chicken Salad on greens and a breadstick. Not something you would expect from elementary, middle, and high school students. Teachers adored it too.

When the little ones would ask me what a Waldorf salad was I would explain it like this.

“A long time ago there was a very fancy hotel in New York City called the Waldorf Astoria.”

“Back in 1893, a man named Oscar came up with a new salad for their fancy schmancy restaurant.”

Their eyes got big when I told them theatrically, “The salad you are having tomorrow is the same one that was served to the fancy people eating in the fancy restaurant who were staying at the fancy hotel.”

One boy asked if it was the same salad and if it would be ok to eat, meaning it was from 1893. I told him the one I make is exactly the same but freshly made. He looked relieved.

Red grapes and celery in this version.

Next, I told the kids what was in the salad. The salad had chunks of apples and grapes, which I already know they loved.

I couldn’t add walnuts to the salad due to the no nuts policy. I omitted telling them about the celery, it only takes one little thing to make a child turn their nose up to something.

The salad also had chicken for the needed protein and a special dressing. They nodded their heads and said they would sign up for it the next day. Yay!

Green grapes and sugared walnuts in this version.

Whenever I make Waldorf salad with or without chicken, I think of how lucky I was to feed those kids new and exciting food.

Now those kids are adults and parents. Whenever I see them they tell me how they missed my cooking. ☺️

What an awesome thing to be able to open their eyes to trying new things they never wouldn’t have as an opportunity to.

I wonder if they are doing that with their own kids?