
I was not in a good place when I started my blog in January 2021. I was struggling with my mental health, overall health, and happiness.
My blog was there for me when I worked through some tough times dealing with my adopted mother, Eileen.
I was a very unhappy person and in a constant state of depression.
I did however have to desire to share my cooking knowledge and life experiences with people the way I was doing on my personal Facebook account.
I had a lot to write about on all kinds of topics. I shared my deepest darkest moments with all of you.
Writing helped me get through the mental and emotional abuse I suffered from for years.
My mother began abusing me when I was nine years old. She used guilt, punishment, manipulation, and sometimes physical abuse.
She was an Oscar award-winning actress. I always say Meryl Streep had nothing on her.
Somehow, last year, I was able to forgive her and my life is completely changed. I am entirely changed both mentally and physically.
I live in a state of peace and comfort these days. I am finally able to be me and no longer a victim. It feels wonderful.
I feel like at this point, as a writer, I don’t have as much to write about. I wrote about all the weird, quirky and many sides of me.
I wrote about my spiritual gifts which a lot of people weren’t ready for. I lost a lot of followers during that series.
My desire to cook has dimmed a bit. I had a lot of culinary tricks, hacks, and knowledge that I wrote about.
Since switching over to a healthier lifestyle my cooking has changed as much as my eating has.
Don’t get me wrong we still eat delicious food with lots of flavor. When I cook I still cook with love, but it’s not that important to
Over the years I shared many of my own recipes. Some readers were kind enough to send me small donations to my blog when they tried one of my recipes.
This made me feel appreciated!
These days I have to be honest with you all, I don’t feel like writing as much. I feel like I am having a hard time thinking of things to write about.
As a general rule, I try to never waste readers time writing about shit no one cares about.
I wonder how many people still actually read my blog? How many people liked it better when I was fucked up?
I have had a loyal group of followers that have supported me, gave me feedback, made me laugh and smile, gave me suggestions, comments, ideas and inspired me to continue writing.
It’s funny how many people tell me when they see me in person who much they love my blog. I am always shocked.
You would never know it on my end since only a handful of people connect with me. Its kind of disappointing to be honest with youZ
Sometimes just a “like”on the blog’s Facebook page would tell me I still have readers out there.
I didn’t start my blog to be a make money operation and to be frank it is expensive to maintain.
This is the first year I questioned if I should renew everything. I decided to give it until then end of this year to see if I felt differently.
I don’t have the time to dedicate myself to writing enough to ask for donations. I feel like I have to really perform whenever someone sends me a donation.
For the rest of this year, I still plan to continue my blog and writing; it just may not be as often as I used to.
When I have something to share, teach , or tell you all, I will. This will keep things fresh for me and get me excited to write again.
I can’t wait to share our garden expansion and our root cellar that we’ve never used for anything but will this year to store our root veggies through next winter.
The Benedict’s that lived in our home for 60 years used our root cellar as they were big gardeners and grew a lot of food.
The tradition will continue and hopefully I can channel Mr. Benedict and have as fruitful of a garden as he once had.
I never want it to seem like I am showing off when I post many of my accomplishments or our big projects as someone suggested to me last summer.
I am just proud as fuck at what can be accomplished and hopefully will inspire someone else.
Through dance, I’ve learned that one of my life’s mission is to teach, inspire and cheer people on. It’s the cheerleader in me! The same as I was all through my school years.
I’ve learned a lot about myself over the last four years. I never in a million years dreamed I would be a sober, happy, healthy, and content person. But here I am.
To those of you who are still with me thank you. I appreciate you, your comments, love, support, and feedback. ♥️
I’ll catch up with you soon.
~julz